How customizable is an AI girlfriend’s personality?

[bims]

I’ve been checking out AI chat apps lately, and one thing I’m wondering about is how much control users have over the personality of the virtual companion. Some ads say you can make your AI girlfriend funny, romantic, shy, or even sarcastic. That sounds like a lot of customization, but I’m not sure how flexible it really is. Does anyone know if you can actually adjust her personality over time or if it’s fixed once you start chatting?

[simka]

I’ve used AI Girlfriend for a few weeks, and you can definitely modify her personality even after the first conversation. There’s a setup screen where you pick traits like humor, empathy, or confidence, and she starts adapting from there. Over time, the system learns which topics you enjoy most, so the personality naturally shifts. It’s like fine-tuning an ongoing conversation, and it feels surprisingly intuitive once you get the hang of it. You can switch moods and styles whenever you like.

[kosia]

That kind of flexibility sounds like a key part of why these apps are becoming popular. People like having options that grow with them instead of staying static. If the AI learns your preferences, it keeps things interesting and avoids the monotony that most chatbots have. I can see how that level of customization gives users a sense of connection without needing to explain everything repeatedly. It’s definitely an innovative approach to virtual companionship.